Esther Ogilvie

Esther Ogilvie is a transformative force in trauma recovery, sexuality, and somatic embodiment, empowering individuals and couples to reconnect with themselves, their bodies, and their relationships. With over a decade of experience, she brings a deeply intersectional, trauma-informed approach to therapy, education, and group facilitation.

Esther’s work spans a broad spectrum of areas, including anxiety and depression, emotional and nervous system regulation, family violence, interpersonal dynamics, and sex and sexuality-related challenges. She is also a qualified menstrual health educator, family violence practitioner, and sex and gender empowerment coach, with a strong commitment to creating safe, inclusive spaces for people of all identities and backgrounds—including the LGBTQI+ community and sex workers.

Through both therapy and dynamic boundary and embodiment workshops, Esther guides clients in exploring intimacy, desire, relational patterns, and personal empowerment. Her client-centered, holistic approach integrates modalities such as somatic embodiment, attachment theory, emotion-focused therapy, psycho-spiritual practices, and mindfulness-based techniques like ACT, CFT, and transpersonal therapy.

Esther specialises in helping clients build emotional resilience, regulate their nervous systems, and develop authentic, compassionate connections. Whether working with individuals or couples, her work often explores conscious kink, non-monogamy, tantra, and non-violent communication—always with a focus on consent, safety, and self-expression.

With global experience in trauma, gender, and sexual embodiment, Esther’s work is grounded in social justice  and resisting oppression while guided by a passion for helping others heal, awaken, and express their full selves—emotionally, relationally, and sexually.

Offerings:

The Art of Feminine Worship:🌶️ 

Most men were never actually taught how to be good lovers with women. Not really.

They learned from porn. From ‘locker room talk’. From trial and error that left both people feeling unsatisfied, disconnected, or quietly disappointed. And somewhere along the way, a lot of men either gave up trying to understand, or doubled down on the wrong things entirely.

This is the course that should have existed a long time ago. Welcome to the Art of Worship, the antidote of the Manosphere. 

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